Blog posts by topic
- advice
- assumptions
- attention
- balance
- beginning
- change
- communication
- connection
- curiosity
- effort
- empathy
- ending
- expectations
- experience
- fear
- grief
- growth
- guidance
- health
- impact
- journey
- knowledge
- love
- masculinity
- mindfulness
- motivation
- motive
- no hacks
- pay attention
- persistence
- presence
- question
- relationships
- resiliance
- resource
- seasons
- self awareness
- shadow self
- time
- toughness
- values
- wonder
On expectations
"Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives; but none about his or her own." - Paulo Coelho
On curiosity
“Listen with curiosity. Speak with honesty. Act with integrity. The greatest problem with communication is we don’t listen to understand. We listen to reply. When we listen with curiosity, we don’t listen with the intent to reply. We listen for what’s behind the words.” ― Roy T. Bennett
On origins
Returning after six weeks with a republishing of a tribute piece to my parents.
On alchemy
“Nature loves courage. You make the commitment and nature will respond to that commitment by removing impossible obstacles. Dream the impossible dream and the world will not grind you under, it will lift you up. This is the trick. This is what all these teachers and philosophers who really counted, who really touched the alchemical gold, this is what they understood. This is how magic is done. By hurling yourself into the abyss and discovering it’s a feather bed.” - Terence McKenna
On relationships
“The quickest way to gauge the quality of your relationships is to make a positive change. The people who are with you for the right reasons will behave the same but the people with you for the wrong reasons will quickly make themselves known.” - Mark Manson
On love
“That was the real secret of the Tarahumara: they’d never forgotten what if felt like to love running. They remembered that running was mankind’s first fine art, our original act of inspired creation. Way before we were scratching pictures on caves or beating rhythms on hollow trees, we were perfecting the art of combining our breath and mind and muscles into fluid self-propulsion over wild terrain.” - Christopher McDougall, Born to Run.